Is it normal for guys to act this way?

Went on 2 dates with this guy, we both want a relationship LT, but agreed that we're both free to date whoever we want until we get to know each other and something is exclusive, he already said he really likes me.
He keeps asking me about the guys i'm dating if they are better than him, like where did he take you, does he kiss better than me, what turned you off about him and i bet you he just wants to hook-up and stuff like that, he demands full details about the dates (jokingly). And when i ask him about the girls he's dating he says "i'm hanging out with this girl" and when i pushed him to give more info he said "i'm hooking up with her right now, and i know it's nothing serious" and "there is another girl i'm talking too as well" and when i pushed him to tell me about her he said "i didn't want to give you details, but you're asking for it. She sends me nudes and i send her mine"

Does it seem weird to you at all that he's that open?

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  • There is no doubt he is insecure. He's probably being as detailed as he is to make you jealous. If you are to have an open relationship like this there should be absolutely no detail from either side. But it takes two very secure people to do this. In my opinion, this little thing you have going with him is destined to fail.

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    • Can it be fixed at all?

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    • And that really is like following your gut. If you can quiet yourself while you're alone, when you think about the big picture of what's going on in any relationship or really any situation you will know what's right and what's wrong for you. The hard part is our brains want us to do what is safe. It does not want us to feel pain so it will say, stay, stay where it is comfortable so that there won't be a fear of change or any pain involved. The body, the gut, will not want that pain and we'll tell us we need to get out of the situation. And you will know when you're around him. If it really feels right it will really feel right all throughout. If it feels wrong, there may be some lustful or passionate feelings but you just may not feel close to 100% about it. You'll know.

    • Right, i need to examine how i feel when i'm with him. It's always a fight between the heart and the mind lol I can't wait to reach the point where i can see both at the same time and decide which one to listen to -_-

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  • its good that at least he's honest, but it kinda bothers me all the personal questions when he dosnt really have the right to know. claim it or leave it.

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    • Well right, but i do ask him those questions back too, just in a different way

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  • I don't know why you'd want to be with a guy like that long-term. For short term for that matter. Seems very insecure

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    • I just think he's too honest and that's what bothers me. He's very nice in general

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    • So maybe you two are perfect for each other. Seems a little bit insane to me but whatever

    • haha i'm confused and not experienced i know. Thank you though :)

  • Open towards you? I mean you pushed him. for an answer...

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    • Yeah, but isn't he worried if he tells me those details that i will be upset? like i never met a guy who would even let me ask him those questions about other girls they are seeing, like is this a red flag

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    • I don't know but he is dating 3 woman at the same time including you. I don't know if you had sex already but I always wonder why people want to see other people once they found someone for a relationship.
      Nothing against an open relationship, but you're not having one.

    • i know i'm not in a serious one yet. We haven't done anything sexual, we just had one date which was a few weeks ago as i am away

  • Well, if you decide that he wasn't right for you then it's fine. But if he just doesn't want to get tied down to one girl then he is a player... and I'm sure you can do better.

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  • Yeah that does seem a bit strange but make a move and let him. know that you really care and ask him out if you like him enough

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