I've confessed my feelings before, but that just scares guys away. I try to let them come to me, but they never come to me. I've tried dating sites, but they don't actually work. I just can't seem to catch a break! I'm 23 and I'm not getting any younger. I'm getting closer to the ages where I'm gonna settle down, but I feel like I'll never have anyone to do that with because I just keep getting rejected or looked at as a sex object. I just don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Girl
I can relate, I still feel like this at times. But I say get to know yourself better find ways to boost your confidence. And remember guys our age aren't looking to settle down so there's a higher chance of meeting a guy that wants a lay then to walk you down the aisle. The more you bare this in mind the less personal you'll take it and the more tests you'll put then through to determine if they are short term or long term.
But just so you know some of those short terms could be a potential long term.
Don't let someone else's behaviour affect how you think and feel about yourself.
Most Helpful Guy
Well stressing won't make it better, you are saying things that are stating my point, dating sites is mostly full with a bunch of horny bastards, usually true love is found on the most unexpected places, it would come and you wouldn't know until it happens, you aren't a sex object because you have something sex objects dont, choice, you can say no, a dildo can't it will be used lol