Just wondering how all of you on GaG would sort this out. Thanks
Though i guess if you still want to help me ill put the details here.
We are a new-ish couple (1 month) gotten on well so far, no arguments, no fights, nothing. We normally use sc for 3-4 hours a day, I said i wouldn't be able to talk for this one evening, after initially saying i could, she got pissed. i said sorry, we "made up" and we are meeting up tomorrow.
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There have been some moments where I would make a slip-up on planning for an event, forget to pick up something at the grocery store for a meal we're making or run into a personal problem that involves with weak personality traits of ours like self-loathing and moments of anger outburst.
If my girlfriend is aggravated over a simple mistake I made, I'll tell her that I'll correct it and give her space to breathe. If this was a long term problem, I take a few deep breaths to collect my thoughts and tell her about my solution to the problem. It's pretty scary when she's angry at that moment but the worst thing you can do is leave a girl hanging in anger, especially when she doesn't tell you what she's looking for. It's a matter of patience and being mature about the situation. No need to move into another room or ignore the problem, just solve it together and the situation will cool down to a point of comfort again.
It sounds like your situation has been defused from a simple conversation! You'll run into this often and once it's happened enough, you'll know what to do since every girl is different in how they handle these moments.
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