Have you ever settled for a less-than-thrilling relationship? Was it worth it?

The guy is nice, someone I went to high school with, but I don't find him physically attractive or have much chemistry with him. He's been persistently pursuing me and I always decline since there's no 'sparks'.
Just wondering if anyone ever felt like they settled into a similar relationship. Are you still together with that person? If so, did that relationship change for the better the more you knew them?

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  • I tried, wouldn't recommend doing it if you're wanting a long term relationship. If you're loyal to your relationships, well you may have the urge to look for someone better when you're with him which is unfair for both of you.

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    • Good point, and you’re right. It does seem unfair to be in a relationship with an unequal level of attraction.

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  • Kinda... nothing wrong with trying?

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  • Sometimes they work out and sometimes they don't. If your picky then it's better to be picky and never settle. In the end it would still bother you that their is no sparks with him even if you gave it a try it wouldn't work out.

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  • If you never try no relationship will ever work out longterm.

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    • I can see that point. I guess I’m afraid of wasting each others’ time.

    • No time is wasted if you enjoy spending it.

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