A month later he messages me out of the blue, and he messages me a lot and messages are long and he's genuinely making an effort. Recently he told me he got a new place; when we were seeing each other he told me he wanted to buy property because was living in this communal house at the time and now he's signed for this flat. We haven't met up, im not sure if that's something he wants or something I would even entertain to be honest?
I don't know the reason for this 180 in his behaviour so I'm hesitant to react. I don't want to saturate the situation with details and I might be leaving bits out because I don't know the relevance but I'm just taken aback by the change in behaviour well texting.
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The most realistic and honest answer would be that he was bored and lonely and just wanted to kill time or he had someone else waiting in the line or was trying to hook up with someone else... if he was interested in as a guy i can say he would have put the effort in the beginning itself... normally people put their best when they are trying to know the other person and are not used to them yet