How long before you ask a girl to go out with you?

I like this girl who doesn't want to have any relationship as she priorities her career and family (also 21 year old, religious person)
When do you think i should ask her to be my girlfriend?
I can wait 2 to 3 years but my friends tell me its too long. What do you guys think?


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  • Ask when you're ready and feel in your own that the time is right. Depending on the circumstances 2-3 years can be a long time but you can also be very involved with her in that time. If you feel as if the feelings are mutual I say don't waste too much time but if you want further confirmation you can take as much time as you need. Just know if the opportunity arises take it because it could be your only one.

    • Since she doesn't want yet. I would be seeking death if i ask her within a year. Yes?

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    • Thanks :)

    • Of course man! Best of luck with everything

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