A week before we broke up, I got back in touch with the OG, I’ll call him, and he told me that his girlfriend of 5 months broke up with him that very day I texted him. So for the next month, we got to know each other all over again, flirted, and I helped him deal with his immature ex girlfriend who was trying to play “take backs” with their breakup. She was being psycho and demanding. Anyways, we’re both trying to work through our feelings for each other WHILE being single to emotionally cleanse ourselves and get happy individually. We have 2 additional problems: 1) we haven’t physically met, yet, and with him in the field for 20 some odd days, our plans to finally meet at the end of this month might be put off yet again. 2) In October, he is being deployed for 6 months. I think if I don’t tell him that I’m 100% positively in love with him during our first meeting, because even then might be too soon, depending on when we get to meet, I should at the very least tell him how I feel before he leaves the states for half a year and I could either tell him through a letter or wait that much longer.
But I guess the question is … what would be the best way to express it to him?
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I was in the Army, there is nothing better than knowing a woman is waiting for me when i get home.
It was one of the greatest feeling I had. But of course the relationship didn't work because she wasn't loyal. But that doesn't change how i felt about someone i loved and was waiting to see for months.
I hope this helps, but... biggest thing to do. Is meet in person first and determine chemistry.
Trust me being apart and together often create completely two different chemistry reactions.
I fell in love with someone online and had excellent chemistry and sexual connection. But when we met. Nothing...
I hope that does not discourage you. But i hope you wait to meet. Because i dont want you to get hurt.