Is polyamory a good idea?
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1 man and 1 woman per marriage but with the man married to multiple women is actually quite natural and indeed found in nature everywhere. Its efficient because 1 man can impregnate many women. Even scientific studies have shown that women are naturally wired to be monogamous whereas men on the other hand are wired the complete opposite. There is even thousands of years of biblical precedent with even some religions in modern times who still practice or at least still believe in the practice of one man and one woman in a marriage but the man in multiple marriages.
I think it's each persons own business how they express their love and to who - as long as it's all safe, sane and consensual.
I've toyed with the idea that I may be polyamourous. Monogamy has never, ever felt natural to me. The realist in me knows that there isn't one soulmate for each of us out there. It also knows that people change, life happens and you don't always love the same person forever. I also know that just because I love someone it doesn't stop me from loving other people.
You can't dictate love to others and you can't say with certainty how they feel, so I think people should just leave others to it and start accepting that monogamy isn't the only way a person can be happy and just because YOU don't feel like that doesn't mean other people are being untrue to themselves.
I don't like it personally but as long as there is no deception, there is nothing inherently wrong with that. I don't think I could be able to give multiple women an adequate amount of love and attention.
Polyamory is something only the pathetic would do.
Np I get jealous sometimes when I see others girls that are friends. I hates hock up. When my current boyfriend had date night. We can only talk about one mins before a girl comes over.
just an excuse to sleep with other people. polyamory aka thot lifestyle
It’s just too much, I don’t get why anyone would want to live like that
it is not good for me.
NO, NO, NO , NO!!!
Neither good nor bad, depends on the person.
Maybe for some people it works... In my case, I like to be the most important person to my partner. He already did the two girl thing and it was tiring for him. I barely have the capacity to focus on one guy let alone two...
I'm going to say yes just to be that guy.
My arguments will make me unpopular. Male biology is built around polyamory (men only mmmk). We're supposed to breed like rabbits. Remember Women cheat differently than men. Most women cheat out of frustration within their relationship. Men cheat because a good opportunity arrives. Biologically it makes sense, women are more selective because they get pregnant and are supposed to look after their kids.
Men are supposed to breed as much as possible. Meaning of life baby. So polyamory is good for all if women accepted it. It's part of our DNA. It's just the gender balance issue which is what disease and war are supposed to fix.
Fuck me I'm going anon
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