Update over bad Tinder date?

Thanks for y'all support, actually the guy and his family came true.. he was spying me all the time from a month he lured a bait on tinder to have me with him.. his family wanted him to marry because he was a little outlier person so they were forcing him, he is 28 and not 25, works as an IT engineer at some tech soft company (forgot the name). He was spying and had an eye over me and clicked my pics and made a list of all my activities so that he can track me. He told me everything, his real name is John and not james. Now it's settled but should I make him get arrested for all this?

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  • I can understand that being an unnerving experience, but the question is whether or not you want the trouble of involving the police, if he's already stopped bothering you?

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    • I have asked him tell me what you want.. let's settle this.. let's see what happens

    • Yeah, I think if he backs off, that's different to if he keeps this up.

      In the second case, time to start talking about involving the law...

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  • That is extremely weird. I read the first post too. I'd get a restraining order, possibly get the police involved, but I don't think he'd be arrested.

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    • Trying but afraid at the same time

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    • and where are you from? look into your state laws and see what they say about restraining orders, what the laws on them are

    • Yes he knows my address.. I m from Fresno

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  • Not arrested but definitely make sure he understands what his behavior is and if he comes near you the legal action that will occur

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  • "his real name is John and not james"

    i dont know why this made me laugh so hard.. like why the fuck does that even matter xD

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    • Just a more context 😡😡😡😡😡

  • Unfortunately what he did wasn't illegal, creap and disgusting but can't do much unless he still is tring to get to you

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    • Aww offfoo cool

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    • Yes but until he actually follows you around now after you telling him to go thats when stalking law comes in

    • Ohhhh i see

  • Weird and creepy, but not illegal. You need to find a new guy.

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  • Arrest him for what?

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  • I might have gone to the police, yes. o_o

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    • I am afraid if he does something me after he gets out of jail.. so I am just thinking πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

    • Then tell the police that, they might keep an eye open on him when he get's out! Restrainingorder or something :)

  • Heck yes report his ass for that!!!

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  • If he’s no longer bothering you then forget it.

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