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If this is a serious question, i would want her to tell them when she is ready to emotionally open up about it. It will take her time on how when she wants to tell. It may even take her months, but if she tells me it means she trusts me enough to hear about her past and not judge.
Rape is a serious problem, many girls are scared of it.
It can effect them mentally for a Long time.
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The unfortunate truth is the most women are sexually violated in some way during their lives.
Demanding to know such a private detail about their lives is as much a violation as their rape was.
Let them tell you in the own time if they choose to. It wasn't her fault. If you find out don't get mad at her or you're an ass AMD don't deserve her.