Most Helpful Guy
No, stop being a chode.
I'm sick of this bullshit I see from guys who say 'I'm going to remain single for the rest of my life because women have hurt me blah blah blah' and then the next minute, these same guys start bitching because they're single and lonely.
Focus on yourself, sure - perfect. You should always put yourself and your own interests first when you're single. The more you focus on yourself, the more you better yourself, the more attractive you will to women.
Now what you need to do is stop watching other men. Who gives a fuck what they're doing, worry about yourself. Do you think those guys approach successfully all the time? No - they don't. For every successful approach most guys will probably have another 5 or more rejections.
Now you can become one of them too if you stop bitching and actually put in the effort. Go watch some pickup videos or something.
Most Helpful Girl