If by any chance we get together, I’m afraid even when he is with me he’ll be thinking of her, her laugh, eyes, smile, jokes, voice etc... I don’t want to come second having to compete with someone he has no relations with anymore!!! What do u think? Is it true or am I over analyzing this
Most Helpful Guy
Of course he won't forget her. You don't forget anyone in your life who was important to you. Heck you even remember a lot of people you barely even knew.
I still remember my "girlfriend" from kindergarten. I remember the girls in 2nd-3rd grade that I used to chase around during recess to kiss. I remember the first girl that I told her I liked her (5th grade). I remember the first girl who asked me to hold hands and skate. You get the picture. You just don't forget stuff like that.
People have a past. That's who they are. You can't expect people to simply forget about someone from the past. He's with you now, by choice. That's what matters.
Most Helpful Girl
Everybody remembers their first love but that hasn’t stopped billions and billions of people from having happy second love relationships. Stop over analyzing this.