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It can be difficult to gain confidence in yourself when people don't tell you what they positively like about you otherwise. Then you begin to question yourself if the way you look is considered attractive and that's when insecurity comes around to haunt you. From everything you mentioned, I'd say having big thighs and a shy personality wouldn't be the problem here because there are men who are attracted to one, if not both of those things! What you got to do is build up your confidence and find the right crowd to be around. Eventually, you'll feel more comfortable the more time you spend with them and who knows! Maybe you'll may receive the compliments and find the friendships you've always wanted! It's hard to break out of your shell of shyness but once you do, you'll feel exponentially better!