Age difference?

Been talking to this guy online and we seem to get along. We’re trying to set up a date. I just turned 20 in February and he’s 23. It’s not a big age gap but I feel like I’m still new to the whole adulting thing and he’s got a head start. Still live with my parents but I’m in college. He seems to have it together and I’m intimidated by him. He’s had a lot more life experiences than me. He doesn’t know it but I don’t drink, haven’t got my license, and I’m a virgin. So you can kinda get why I’m intimidated; Is this ok? To feel this way.

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  • That’s not much of a difference but I see why you would feel intimidated. I find that being although I’m 20, I still love with my parents, as opposed to friends of mine who are down school and live on their own and I feel like a kid. But there’s no reason for you to feel that way. Everyone is at different stages of life no matter what age you are

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    • Yeah you’re right though that is how I’m feeling compared to him. What if he’s expecting certain things from me? I feel like I don’t have a lot to offer.

    • If he isn’t satisfied with just you then he’s not worth your time

Most Helpful Guy

  • My girlfriend is 30

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    • That’s not helpful. I’m talking about my situation not yours.

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    • But three years isn’t that more wise

    • It’s ok to feel that way but don’t let it stop you from pursuing a relationship

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  • Guys take a lot longer to mature so women tend to prefer a guy a little older. If he is a genuine guy he will enjoy teaching you new things and won't pressure you into loosing your v etc. If It all gets too much you can always tell him :)

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    • "Guys take a lot longer to mature so women tend to prefer a guy a little older."
      Clearly not in this case, did you even read it?

  • I don't think 3 years is bad

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  • You're intimidated. Not a reason to not pursue it

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    • What if he expects certain things from me?

    • What if he turns out caring? You won't know until you venture out

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