So I asked a girl out, but technically I just told her how I felt, and that I just had to let it out in the open to test the waters.
She told me she was not looking for a relationship right now, to which I said that we should continue being friends and she said yes. Subconsciously however I do feel that I was hoping for a yes, because though it didn't hurt the day I asked her and she rejected me, I spent the next day crying and just in bed (to all those who say guys dont cry stop being a wuss, respectfully, f*** off)
Now I'm feeling that I should ignore her for a week or so, I should be fine by then and be able to conitnue the friendship as if nothing ever happened (done this before so i know a week is all it takes, the feelings will never go but I won't be overcome with them, and I can try and meet someone else in the meantime)
So my question is if I ghost for this time and come back a week later should I just come clean that I needed this time to get over her rejection? Or should I just make the age old excuse of "I was busy", because no one is ever that busy.
Most Helpful Guy
You are interested in this woman romantically.
You took your shot, she's not interested. Move on go try and find someone else romantically. You don't need girl "friends". You've got your buds for that.
Just forget about this one and move on. I mean if you see this girl daily (at work or in class) you can say hello but other than that you don't need girl "friends".
Let it go, move on and keep looking.
Most Helpful Girl
Just avoid her for a week like you said, try and speak to other people maybe on online cos it's quicker, just try and get all feelings out of your head. And yeah people can be that busy and if that ask doing what just none of your business cos it's not their business, you know what I mean