Most Helpful Girls
I firmly we choose partners who help us become our best selves, these things you are feeling you need to change are clearly for you and not for your boyfriend, your boyfriend has highlighted your personal desires for being more stable as a person mentally and for having good physical health and fitness, being overweight does affect your mental state and you confidence because no matter how much people try to accept it being overweight has negative hormonal effects on your brain, and of course your joints and energy levels, I started taking measures and became fit and lost 40 kg, and I have to say my mental state and energy levels became a lot better, I saying this out of experience as a formally overweight girl ( throughout) childhood, I am saying this is what you must do no I am just recommending it, its all your choice and also do it for yourself first and foremost because you will never be able to keep up other people countless different expectations.
He clearly loves you for you, don't let your personal relationship with your body get in the way. I can tell your first hand the way you are yourself is 100% not how he sees you. I bet you are beautiful, try and not be so hard on yourself.
If he wanted to get a skinny confident girl he would get one, don't push him away If you really care for him :)
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Most Helpful Guys
Look, all women are beautiful no matter what. If a skinny person judges you for being slightly chubby then just tell them that your happy you don't look like a Barbie doll. Ok. And your boyfriend sounds like he is telling the truth and he really likes you. Guys tend to be honest so if he wanted to say something nasty he would have said it by now. You should appreciate yourself and tell you self that you are beautiful and you don't have to change a thing