Why do I ALWAYS find myself in a situation where I like TWO people? Like I will find one dude and be happy then out of nowhere this other guy will pop out of nowhere and I don’t pursue anything with either of the two because I don’t want to lose the other. But then once one stops talking to me THE OTHER DOES TOO. Like is it just me? Like I even tried to cut off all attention from everybody else so I can focus on ONE dude but it never works. I even tried to do a “pros and cons list” for both and they manage to tie. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ What do I do? Is it just me?