My girlfriend and I are having problems. Can someone please help?
What Girls & Guys Said01
Damn, sorry to hear that man. It's starting to look like your girlfriend is losing interest in you. The signs are all there. Becoming distant, needing space, spending more time with friends, talking to other guys. Really isn't a good situation.
Now when she says that she doesn't want you gone, don't trust her on that. I'm sorry to say this, but I don't believe it's because she literally wants to stay with you, I believe it's coming from her fear of being alone. She wants to have you there to fall back on when she needs you, but spend time apart every other time.
It's time for you to admit that you could lose this girl, she's already beginning to create a rift between you and her. So be strong and have a talk with her. Ask her again exactly what the issue is. Tell her you're trying to make things work. And after telling her these things, if you can't see her trying to make things work as well, if you still get back some crap about 'needing space', break up with her right there and then because it's only going to cause you more drama in the future.
And I suspect if you break up with her, you'll suddenly see a shift in her behavior and she'll start putting in effort to try and get you to stay. That's how it usually plays out.
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