Most Helpful Guy
I feel you the thing is its the confidence. It is also the entertainment and excitement. Nice guys like you and I was are boring and want to please the girl.
When the girl needs to feel like she needs to impress the guy. She needs to chase him after he chased her and asked her out.
She wants to see new places and be excited to go out and have some risk. Not go to her favorite spots that are safe and comfy.
My advice is to not look at a girl as someone to go for and get. She is below you and needs to show that she likes you or it won't work out and she is not worth your time.
Cause dating is hard and getting to know girls takes time effort and money.
Woman are also not secure in how they look so if a guy is into them they dont like it cause they dont feel pretty or sexy. They want to impress and wow the guy after taking 3 hours on thier hair.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't understand what a "nice guy" is. I actually don't believe in people who say they are "nice". I believe there are kind people. And I think when you are always 'nice" means you actually never want to speak your truth and hurt other people's feelings. I think people who are always 'nice" are those who usually never say anything when they've been hurt, so you never know what's going on in their minds. They usually dull cause they're afraid of having an opinion. I hate men who disrespect women. But I don't like fake nice men either. Women like men who are challenging, have a kind heart, charm, imperfections...
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