Most Helpful Girl
I agree to an extent. However, most people are basing their standards on societal norms like “s/he needs to look this specific way” or “he needs to have a job”, “she needs to have small/big boobs”, like okay, I get it but the world isn’t a Build-A-Girl (or Guy)-Workshop where you’re able to be that picky.
Personally, I DO observe a guy’s looks I mean, I have eyes. But that doesn’t mean I’m going to go for the hottest guy just because he’s the one who meets the beauty standard the most. I take into account other factors like personality traits, intelligence, his dreams, his relationship history etc. That doesn’t mean that one thing I disagree with will automatically be a dealbreaker. I can be flexible as well
Most Helpful Guy
Having standards is the knowledge of what you want and the willpower to don't be satisfied with less. That's like when you safe your money for a 50k car. You can also buy a car for 2k, but would it make you as happy as your dreamcar? Guess not. Having standards is totally fine as long as they don't get too high.