There is this guy in my class, he’s one of my best friends and we’re really close. A couple weeks ago, he admitted that he had feelings for me. I didn’t know what to answer so I played it cool. Now I have had some time to think and I’ve come to the conclusion that I like him too. I said this to him and he answered that he just wanted to stay friends but that he has to think about what I just said to him. I’m really confused. Why say that you have feelings for me and then not act on them? Also important to mention, we flirt a lot, I’ll give you some examples: when we’re at parties/ clubs he constantly puts his hand on my ass and squeezes it, he also holds my hand at random times, he hugs me, ... etc. I really don’t get it. Please help me unravel this mystery of a guy.