Am I the only one that feels that or are there others (guys and girls)? (I just want to know if I'm being too sensitive). It really wasn't a good relationship experience.
There are just some people who can recover so fast and I wish I could do that, too. I hate hurting.
(Just a yes/no question and if you want to share, that's cool :) )
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I felt the same way too. But that was because I had 2 "relationships" back-to-back and they both ended for the same reason, leaving me really hurt.
Both guys pretty much led me on, saying that "we'll see what happens. Maybe a relationship will form". Only thing was that they had no intention of forming a relationship with me. The first one only wanted me for sex. I dropped him and got over him quickly.
The second one treated me like I was his girlfriend and I felt like we were a couple. But he wouldn't put a label on it because he didn't wanna move too quickly. So I waited and it turned out the reason why he didn't want to put a label on it was because he was going to move abroad within the next year. I got rid of him too, but this one hurt a lot more.
I was really turned off from dating, but I'm starting to get over it. Part of me wants to find someone new, but part of me says I'm still not over my ex and that I shouldn't date for the rest of this year. But I think harmless flirting would be important for the recovery period. Just flirt with random strangers - it'll get your mind off the hurt and move you closer to recovery.