What's the worst thing a person you dated did to you?


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  • I walked in on her cheating on me. And discovered that our kid wasn't mine.

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    • What did you do after it happened?

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    • What about the kid? Do you see the child?

    • No. Want mine. She was only a month old when this happened

  • Didn't tell me he was really a dude..

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    • Holy shit.. Please tell us your story

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    • I don't know how she thought it would be okay to not bring this up honestly..

    • @keenybmr Ya, apparently she thought she was a girl even if she had a package, so I shouldn't care or something? I fixed that thought pretty quickly though once I found out.

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  • Stalked me, threatened to hurt himself if I broke up with him, threatened to hurt the guy I was dating after him, refused to give my stuff/money back, posted revealing pictures of me online, punched a hole in my door when I broke up with him, tried to make our mutual friends hate me...

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  • I think onen bad thing was when he begged me for my friends number, and i didn't want to give it to him but he was like "oh u don't trust me" and so i felt bad so i gave it to him. He got her number and I just felt like something was going on because he would ignore me and talk to her all the time. And I knew this because my friend would tell me. He would act differently with her and act more open with her. So he found out that she was bisexual and told me that he wanted to have a 3-way relationship or a threesome and I said no because I am not bisexual and I am not going to do something like that for him because I know for a fact that i it as the other way around, he wouldn't.
    Another thing that he did was he put me on "punishment" and he would ignore me if i didn't want to have phone sex with him. I was out with my family for my grandad's birthday and i told him and he still got very angry and started to be distant and ignore me.
    He also got on a game and told another girl that he was single, he lied about where he was from and when i told him he lied about it and deleted the game. Then he broke up with me because of the distance in the relationship. And it was always long distant so it didn't make sense to me. I am very glad he broke up with me though my life is so much better.
    But yeah, those are some things!

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  • She cybered with dudes online.
    She would have tantrums where she would slam and throw things scarily often.
    She would guilt trip me into having sex or doing sexual things when I wasn't ready for or wanted it.
    She was controlling and manipulative so I ended up doing a lot more for her than she ever did for me.
    I was always wrong and made out to be an asshole even though I know I'm awesome af now.
    She would storm off in the middle of the night to make me feel bad or guilty if I didn't do something she liked exactly when she wanted it.

    She had this tactic which I like to call White Girl Tears where she could cry on the spot in order to always make me feel like a savage asshole even though she was in the wrong. It would also make sympathize with her because she's a woman crying and I'm a giant dude.

    She was the devil. I'm apprehensive towards all relationships and people who show interest in me now because of that experience. I'm so thankful I got out of that before it got even worse.

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  • Cheated on me with my "best friend"
    She apparently moved to South Africa cos she "loved to travel"
    1 year later I found out she never went to South Africa and she had a child and her n my boyfriend had been hiding the child away from me n his "games away" on weekends was his visit weekends to her house. Worst thing was I found out cos her mum told me. Fml

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  • she said the 4 most terrible words I've ever heard

    "is it in yet?"

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  • Knocked me up after a four year relationship and throught me out onto the street when he found out i was pregnant only to try and get back together several months later then waits until baby is born and a couple months old and kicks me and the baby out again to be homeless

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    • That's horrible, I'm so sorry...
      You need to stay away from him and keep your baby away from him as well. Don't go back to him if he comes begging again...

    • @Udbhav_Bantwal ha that was a decade ago im happily married now but it messed me up for awhile

    • I'm glad to hear that... And its really great that you overcame that, must have been really hard...

  • He told me he couldn’t live without me, and would kill himself if I ever broke up with him. His family had an enormous amount of debt, they didn’t have enough to eat on a daily basis. I felt like if I left him he really would kill himself because he had nothing else in his life.

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  • Left me stranded without my purse or phone in a town i didn't know with no way back to his house. Then had the nerve to wonder why i didn't find it funny.
    Fucking arsehole.
    he's now an ex.

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    • Rightfully an ex. The fuck did he think that'd be funny?

  • Blackmailed me with photos I've given him. And what he blackmailed for? To not totally cut connections with him after our breakup, but provide him "pleasure" whenever he needs to, and to do as he says. But never burden him with emotionall feelings. Which is he blackmailed me to be his slut.

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  • We fell pregnant. She ended our relationship, pushed me out, started talking about me not having custody for 3 years (all within a few weeks). Sadly ended in miscarriage, but I can't forget her making me feel like secondary citizen in our child's life

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    • I'm so sorry that happened! Sending a big hug!!

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    • I can imagine all the different emotions and questions you most have. I think sometimes people go into panic mode and do things completely out of character, that is certainly not a excuse obviously.

      I've always said forgive but don't forget. Keeping a grudge will only hurt you. You definitely sound like a strong person and it does and will get easier and easier :D

    • Not sure I've felt strong over the period. I'm very lucky to have family and friends who I've been able to talk to about things (even when I've been an arse to them they stand by me).
      Her character did a complete 180 the last few times we met up. It's another thing which makes it all confusing. I don't know how much of what she said she meant (there were other things said, lies exposed)

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  • After 5 years of repeatedly breaking my heart, she regained my trust and ruined my career and destroyed me mentally. I blame her for the onset of Reactive Arthritis I got from not being able to bear the the stress and pain. In remission now so at least its better now :)

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  • Cheated on me for 10 years and lied about loving me. Also had at least one kid that isn't mine. Probably the other too. Really fucked me up.

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    • How did you find out? and what did you do after it happened?

  • In my case a lot I’ve dated have been insecure etc and have gone ballistic spreading slander but guess that’s ‘normal’. The worst thing that happened is out of marriage and not dating where my ‘wife’ who is a genetic control freak, just out of spite kept (still does) my daughter away from me (imagine, she took the child away only because I gleefully said I’ll keep the child when she ‘threw’ my 6 yo kitten at me saying “she’s your headache so you keep her”)

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  • Left me because he wanted sex and I wanted relatioship even if he promised he wanted that. When I accused him he threatened to call police and tell my family.(He is foreigner and my parents would kick me out of house if they knew )

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  • Fucked a guy that I worked with and considered a friend while I was away at college, multiple times and including sexual stuff she would never try with me. And I found out by catching them in the act when I came home early on Christmas break to surprise her. Oh and we were dating for 4 years at that point.

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  • So far nothing too bad except this one ex. He was the one who played hard to get game and acted like he wanted to break up so I agreed, without knowing that he did that to make me chased after him. He spread rumours about me "begging for him and told everyone that I am a gold digger/escort girl"

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  • She showered me with gifts and praise that I didn't deserve in order to make me like her. Such insecure women (and men) dilute the meaning of doing nice things for each other, because in such a relationship, you reap the rewards whether you deserve them or not.

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  • My nymphomaniac F W B roommate brought home to our apartment and fucked the car salesman who just sold her a car.. I had just fucked her that morning. Next morning, I hear his footsteps in our apartment and that's how I learned our "relationship" disappeared literally overnight.

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  • Cheated on me with a minor... she was 15 it was disgusting

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  • Tried to steal all my money, got pregnant when I am sterile, and tried to make me pay child support for a child that wasn't mine (I clearly asked for a DNA test).

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  • I’ve been lucky overall, my exes treated me fairly well. Worst thing is he broke up with me on my voice mail then blocked my number when I tried to call him back

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  • 1. Repeatedly asked if I really was a virgin and laughed at me.
    2. Kept sending me abusive msgs months after I broke up with her accusing me of using her for sex
    3. Got pissed off at me when I tried to clean up her mess on my sheets
    4. Faked an orgasm and moaned ridiculously loud, then broke up with me the next day

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  • Cheated and lied. A complete fail. And that's not dating, that's marriage.

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  • Being ambiguous with me abd keeping me on the edge, not exactly knowing where we re going and not being authentic and opening up to me straight out on what she s thinking ir what she wants which sort if made her manipulative and made me put out much more than she did.
    Alsi trying to make me jealous to get a reaction from me

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  • Accused me of being a gold digger after basically getting in the way of any job I had because it wasn't glamorous enough. I was studying at the time and worked as a waitress and then in a shop. He wanted me to have a fancy job.
    Also made me dress really ugly and look bad. (Iwas broke so he paid for my clothes and his taste sucked).

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  • Taking me for granted, having mixed signal , cheating. blaming Your So on your own mistake. that why I have move on. they all wanted it back but it too late now. I am good relationship. Trust should be earn not given . I am cute but I have learn from my mistake and not to blame people from my mistake. be thankful that were real rare people out there that I am friend with. what doesn't kill you make you strong.

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  • Since I had a bad reputation (for merely being a little socially awkward), she apparently wanted to 'atone' for her mistake of dating me by announcing to the entire snack bar at the skating rink that I "smell". Which I kinda did, since I was kicked out by my parents at the time. :P

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  • She tried to get me to sign some bullshit contract her Dad wrote up (he is in NO way, shape or form a legal professional) that basically outlined what I can't do with my daughter during my time with her. That all happened when my daughter was less than 1 year old; my daughter is 5 now. I told my ex to shove it up her ass, shouted her Dad down and since then my ex has never bothered me with any proper bullshit - beyond infrequent petty crap.

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  • Started dating someone else while we were dating and it was going great. You go two weeks without seeing each other in person and she bails.

    That killed me. She was the one.

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  • Said she wanted a baby, didn't get pregnant. she kept telling me i was the issue because she kept having her periods. Then discover while cleaning old prescriptions for the contraceptive pill.

    She was totally fucking with my head!!

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  • Took my virginity, blasted it all over twitter.. and come to find out later, gave me an STI. I had never slept with anyone but him, so basically that's how I found out he cheated on me all the time. Lol, my first boyfriend/relationship was an awful experience

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    • Reading all of these makes me remember why decent guys get lumped in with assholes. There are a lot of them and they really have no respect at all. Sorry to hear that.

    • @Mythtech I agree, but def still thankful that there are some good guys out there! Thanks for the response!

    • @LololLZ no problem. 🙂🤗

  • She broke up with me on Valentine's day to instead spend the day with the guy she had been seeing behind my back.

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  • Nothing that could not be forgiven on the long run. There have been a few 'incidents' earlier, but I partly blame myself, because in each case I could have prevented it. Most of the time it was (my) money being -emm - mis-used.

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  • ignored me for whole month straight. swore he broke up with me before he disappeared, he didn't. started talking to another girl, had sex with her... felt guilty. came back, and of course i took him back.

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  • Broke up with me and ended up with "the guy who's like a brother to her" a few months later. She also said "i'm stronger by myself".

    Not horrible, that that was my only relationship i've had.

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  • Disappeared for two weeks with no warning and used her father's failing health to create drama between us. Then told me how insensitive and intrusive I was (worse even).

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  • He didn't even acknowledge my existence. Yes, that is the worst thing he has done.

    Don't get confused. I've mentally dated Harry Styles for a couple of months now.

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  • @CarpetDenim Since I can't privately message you, how exactly was Julia flirting with Weeb? I will be unbiased listening to your side of the story, I just want to know the truth

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  • Mentally abused me for years. Hit me a couple times.

    His favourite thing to do was control my food to the point he would eat my dinner and tried to starve me for days at a time.

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    • Who stays in a relationship where they're not allowed to eat?

    • An extremely abused woman who’s threatened constantly and not eating is the better of two evils

  • Broke up with me three separate times for religious differences nd tried to convert me and told me she would accept my marriage proposal after she got back from her mission, yet spent her whole mission trying to convert me.

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  • Completely blocked me out of her life, blocked me on all her social media, without telling why she broke up with me.. and 2 days before this happened, she literally told me I was the best boyfriend ever

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    • Thats what happened to me. Its like nothing ever happend. I would call him a chicken shit. At least text

  • Sleep with my best friend because that made me not trust any woman. Because with the first hint that they are lying to me I thank about what Amanda Hill done to me. That happen at 15 I am now 38

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    • And that didn't make trust no man? You know he was your bestfriend and cheated as well

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    • Prove they are. I must see it.

    • I completely understand how you feel. The same thing happened to me. She cheated on me with a guy who I worked with and considered a friend. I caught them in the act. We were dating for 4 years at that point. After finding that out I ended it right away. I don't trust women in thst manner anymore. I tried dating again but I couldn't connect with them since I didn't trust them. So none would last more then a month. I have since given up dating all together.

      I know not all women are the same. But I didn't expect that nor see it coming. I trusted that woman more than any other woman I have ever known. So if she could do that to me then it's possible they all can, since I can't tell if they will or not. So I don't trust them at all. She ruined not only our relationship by cheating, she potentially ruined ever relationship with women I will ever have by her cheating.

  • Threatened to harm my family and me, telling me that I'd be responsible for everything just because I told him that I needed time and space. I wasn't ready for a relationship that's what I told him.

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    • What the fuck is his problem? Was he serious, did you call the police?

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    • Okay good. He'd should have backed off before starting..

    • I know but then good that he didn't actually go far

  • I don’t even wanna go there. I blocked that sh*t out

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  • I feel sorry for every one in the comments.

    I have never loved a girl before (Virgin) because I am Muslim I am not allowed to have any sexual stuf between a guy or girl if you have any Feelings on the girl just knock her family door

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  • I guess most of the people I dated cared enough to hide how badly they were deceiving me... My most recent ex didn't even bother lying. I didn't even have my blissful ignorance 😞

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  • Emotional & physical abuse.
    Cheated on a frequent basis and denied it every time.

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  • Cheated on me. Kicked her out and gave the guy a beat

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