She wants something long term and seems nice, but she has had hook ups and friends with benefits and bfs in the past.
I guess I'm shy and never have had a relationship/sex before...
So I don't know, I feel a bit insecure...
Most Helpful Guy
No, friends with benefits is always just code for 'there's a guy I fuck' they are never actual friends. OK maybe not never but almost always its just hookups or they really want more. It doesn't match my ethics so no.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't and I wouldn't if she still went to the friends with benefits before you're official