Is my boyfriend being inconsiderate? How should I handle this?
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Just be honest, tell him you need to spend time with your dad and that you'll help him in the afternoon. He should be grateful for any help you give so if he gets the hump that's his problem. After 3 weeks he shouldn't expect you to be dropping everything to help him out
Your boyfriend maybe didn't think it would be a faux pas to ask you to help set up. Just tell him "I'm sorry, I'd like to go but I don't see my dad much and I planned on seeing my dad in the morning. I'll be happy to see you there at 5pm."
- This explains that you can't go early and why
- It explains you will still go and see him.
You just say no? It's not that deep
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