Most Helpful Guy
You should end your current relationship, before starting a new one. Your current relationship sounds like a dud, and it going absolutely no where. What is the sense in having a relationship with a loser, who only wants to play video games, and doesn't want to work? Do you plan on working, to support him and the kids for the rest of your life? You may "love" your current boyfriend, but it takes more than love. There needs to be some sensibility to a relationship, and both working toward common goals. Not one responsible person, and one who takes. He's an adult. it's long past time to stop him from feeding off the teat, and to make his own way in life. It's also time to stop the sex. If he's not man enough to get be responsible and get a job, then he's not man enough to be allowed in your pants.
Most Helpful Girl
I always feel that if you need to hide your interactions with someone else from your partner; you’re cheating