Its a long story with my ex we've been on and off 4 times and are thinking about trying again when college semester starts up. I left twice and she left twice. Every reason was bc we didn't love ourselves. What should I do in this situation. Date but not br serious. Find something serious. Or wait to shoe her a better version of me. She says she's unhappy without me and still loves me and same for me. But she can't handle the stress and wants to focus on herself.