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Betrayal is very painful , so I'd be devastated at first if a guy I loved cheated on me. But I wouldn't waste anymore of my time with him by talking things through. There's nothing to talk about. Betrayal is the one thing I'd never forgive, because loyalty is paramount to me. I wouldn't let the hurt consume me though, or let it prevent me from placing my trust in other guys
So I'd cut all means of contact , and focus on healing and moving on from him
Best to address the ‘why’ not the what, see if we can work it out, if not , call it a day.