What makes a girl out of a guy's league?


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  • When she has a lot more to offer to a relationship than he does and everyone knows it. Maybe she doesn't hold a degree but has a steady job, many healthy friendship, several hobbies and a bubbly personality/passion for cooking and cleaning while bro over here has a degree but no job, lives like a slob, only eats take out, complains about life, and has like 1-2 friends. Why would she date that?

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  • Nothing.
    To think in such categories is plain bullshit.

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    • I don't know. I feel like leagues are kind of dumb. If u vibe then u vibe.

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  • Actually believing that she is.
    Basically nothing but your own insecurities.
    When anyone believes to be above someone else, for being better looking, more intelligent, etc.. I'd say that behavior actually places that someone below.

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    • It sounds pretty shallow. I remember I was walking with this girl I used to be friends with and her other friend saw a couple and said "Ewww! Why is she with him? She is way too pretty to be with him." I told her "Hey don't ever say something mean like that." And she felt really guilty and ran away afterwards.

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    • When I choose to be with her, then she's pretty much in my league, I'd say.
      I don't really care what other people think then.

    • That's awesome. And that's how it should be!

  • It's all relative. Seeing someone who is comcidering higher up the social ladder, or is extremely attractive, usually both is typically the way to.. not go. But then it is all in your head untill you talk to them, no matter how 'hot' or popular they are, they may just like you too.

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  • Its the other way around. Even tho i do not believe this"out of your league" crap. If i wear cool thothes, i seem confident, i can make her laugh and i know what makes her tick then im hardly out of her league. Online is different hovewer. Thats why its really hard compared to real life convos, as anyone or everyone can be out of your league when in real life if i call you out for a drink you could be surprised how much i can be different/better.

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  • THE GUY. A man knows there I no such thing as league nor type. A woman is not a label. Any mam that treats a woman as such either doesn't respect the woman or has no respect for himself.

    Now this is totlly different from man worshipping a woman. All women should and shall be worshipped

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  • Many things I think. Maybe if she’s smarter, has a better job, better looking, is perceived as better than him by other people, how much money she has, if he thinks he’s not as good as her, if he’s not confident, etc. there's many more different reasons why this could be the case.

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    • So that makes it good? All of this is a good enaugh reason to decide someone is out of a gorls league, and that they should not even bother. personaly i dont that is a good thing, everyone deserves a shot for their personality. Everybody should get a chance at everyone for maybe that one is the true one. But sadly it mostly comes down on the better looking part, most other things bother less in general.

  • Nothing. Low self esteem makes you think you can't get a person. But everybody has potential to be a partner as long as we find their soft spot

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  • It's a misguided question to ask. There aren't "leagues" like some tiered or hierarchical division between subcategories of social groups. That just doesn't exist. I've dated married women, and had sex with professors and TAs, all of whom were older than me and farther along in life than me. Most people would think that another man's wife, educational faculty, or even just older women in general would put a woman "outside" of a man's league. But it just doesn't work that way, and if I had ever assumed that these women, who I enjoyed wonderful interactions with, were out of my league before I spoke to them and got to know them, then nothing would have ever happened and I could retrospectively justify my thinking that they were out of my league. But being a contrarian who rejects pointless social norms, I went ahead and chatted with them and they turned out to be lovely people who were, in turn, interested in me.

    So a better question to ask would be "what is a league such that one person cannot be in another person's, and what does this imply about the way people must interact?" To which a good answer would be "a naïve social construct that reinforces ideas about who is and is not good enough for someone else, but not something that actually exists or is socially useful except for providing a bad excuse to reject somebody because you don't want to tell them that you simply aren't interested."

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  • Well the out of league situation is quite interesting actually.. when a girl is attractive, she attracts more people, so she get attention from different levels of attractivity, then she'll have many options, so she will naturally pick those who attract her the most, which will leave the less attractive guys behind out of her league of attention. Of course attractiveness is not the only aspect of the out of league situation..
    She might also be too smart for u or to good for u or whatever.. but the concept is common with all the aspects.

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  • It's about what each person brings to the table. If she's better looking than you then there's other things that have to balance out or she's out of your league. Does the guy take care of himself? Is he charming/confident? Doing well financially? A girl can be gorgeous and not "out of a guy's league" if he's physically unattractrive but brings a lot of other things to the table and she's just a pretty face.

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  • Dating is not baseball. Girls being confident makes men want you. Nothing is more atractive than being put in my place by a sassy women. Tall short big small black white. No matter. Be you and be proud.

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  • If you mean below his league, then believing that she's out of it qualifies😊

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  • Just physical attraction I'd say. Doesn't matter of they have a shit personality and I don't want them. Even if I did, I could not get an instagram model physically attractive girl.

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  • Depends on the person
    But I guess if they guy sees them as popular when they aren't, really pretty when they think they aren't, able to socialise when they can't. That sort of thing

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  • His lack of confidence, and how cute he perceives her.

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  • Beauty, I suppose. I'm a potato, and my best friend/crush is absolutely beautiful. She's probably 3 leagues above me.

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  • If the girl has really good looks, personality and body. Guys will consider her out their league cause they think they're not as good looking or good enough for her. They feel a bit inferior

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  • If you don't want to date me, then you are not good enough for me.

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  • The girl's taste in guys. You can't change a penguin into a lion, but if the girl prefers penguins then the lion has no chance. 🤔

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  • No girl is out of my league, because I am old-fashioned and I am also very persistent.

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  • Sometimes looks, or lifestyle taste (how she spends her money)

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  • Depends on what they want or have. One thing it might be money, beauty or brains

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  • Wrong question
    It should be, what a guy would think for a woman to be out of his luagh?

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  • Normally if he isn't confident in his appearance then a girl he would consider attractive would likely be out of his league.

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  • Overall rating in general looks but every once in a while class

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  • In my opinion it's a terrible thing to put people into leagues. I think generally speaking we all have the same great potentials in life. Many people have had experiences out of their control that have shaped them into the people they are today. So to me to put someone into a league is very judgmental and cruel thing to do. But I suppose the concept came out of the shallow idea that one person could somehow be better than another person which I believe to be false. Generally that shallow concept would be based on looks or money.

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  • No such thing as out of the league. If she likes you it’s only natural

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  • Immature
    Stupid
    Bad behaviour
    Gold digger
    Bitch
    Cheating
    Cold

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  • Nothing just the mental wall that was put there. Or maybe social status

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  • Can be lotsa things... Mostly looks, money or competition

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  • If she's hot and he's not and doesn't have money to counterbalance he busted face

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  • The guys mindset and personally set limitations.

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  • bitch

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  • every girl i see is out of my league

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    • Their attitude, the way they present themselves, their friends, the men whom they want. Those qualities put you out of our league time and again.

  • His own perception of his value.

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  • no such thing

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  • Mainly a gap in popularity, looks, and height.

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  • Beautifil 😘😘💋

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  • No girl is out of my league.

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  • Looks, money, social status, intelligence

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  • Level of attractiveness along with status.

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  • If she's too hot, famous or rich for him

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  • If she's breathing lol

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  • Her chance of success in life vs. his.

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  • Her standards, her

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  • Education Level

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  • Nothing.

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  • Hormones!

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  • Looks and fame

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  • Looks

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  • When she acts stupid ha

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