Why do some guys beg to have you back, only each time to blow it again and again?

I have given second and now a third chance to show that he cares through his actions. Now I am done. Wondering why some men keep swearing they care that much about you and fight to win you, when they don’t really mean it?

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  • We do actually mean it. But men in this age are really imature. They don't know what it means "to change myself". That it means to go against yourself. Don't mind him, he needed to be taught a lesson 🙂

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    • He’s 28 and you’re more mature at 19. Shaking my head...

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    • Thanks :) Like I said he’s 28, I’m not so sure he’s going to be changing. I’ve also given him a few chances already to change. Im also 30 and can’t be waiting around for someone.

    • You need to hmgibe him a lot more time 🙂 he must realise that he has done something wrong at first 🙂

Most Helpful Girl

  • If someone cared about you, a second or third chance would never have been needed to show that they "care". They should have done so from day 1 if they thought you were worth it.

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  • Some guys feel that having a girlfriend is good for their image. Some can't keep their promises because they have other priorities.
    Three chances are more than enough. If he makes Same mistakes again then leave him.

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  • I'm probably not the best example but I kept going back for sex and kept blowing it because I would jack off to porn if she wasn't available. Until I decide it was stupid to keep doing this and I was getting depression from sex so I ended it.

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    • Okay well I don’t think that’s the same thing going on for me, but yes it’s hard for men to let go...

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    • I guess. I don't know why she considered jacking off to another girl to be the same level as cheating.

    • Right well I’m not really talking about you here... it’s my post. But I would say you’re super young and I’m sure she is too. Sounds like you need to work on censoring what’s a good idea to tell someone you’re dating and she needs to be less naive.

  • It's comforting for them to know they have spare and won't die alone.

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  • Girls do this too by the way

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  • Why do some women do it?

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  • Why did you keep going back?

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    • Because the reasoning made sense. Took awhile to see what was really happening. I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when the offenses were not serious things like cheating or such.

    • There wasn't more to it, like love?

    • Of course there was love, but that doesn’t mean it was healthy.

  • Because guys are stupid lol

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  • U dont deserve to live

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