I’ve gotten to the point where I haven’t approached a woman or been on a date in almost 3 years. I’m about to be 30 as well. After my last relationship ended very roughly I made very bad decisions that caused me to have to move back home. I lost my job, wrecked my car drinking, and ran up huge amounts of debt. It’s starting to get better and I do have a decent job now. The thing is with where I’m at I’m asking if any woman would actually want to be with me. I consider myself to be a good person but women obviously need status and a man who can provide. Is there any point in even trying? My social life is lacking too and because of depression in the past most of my friends have moved on from me. That’s resulted in me going out alone and drinking alone which I’m sure people look down on. It actually irritates me when people make fun of loners like me too and that makes me have less hope to meet women.