Most Helpful Guy
While your mom seems to be hinting a little immaturity, I can understand her attitude. You lied to her, and you had sex with your boyfriend (likely out of wedlock, which I'm guessing your mom didn't like). Oh, and you got a UTI. So, yeah. I can understand her not feeling good about you right now. She crossed the line gossiping to the entire town, though. The only thing I'd suggest is start saving some money and move out. That's what you should've done anyways before you had sex with your boyfriend. You're 18. The fact that you did all that while living with your parents means you had it coming. You're supposed to be making good decisions now that you are legally an adult (at least in all of US, if you weren't already at 16), but you're not.
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Most Helpful Girl
Honestly I’d call her out on it. It doesn’t have to be aggressive, but just that you’re trying to maintain your adult privacy while still being honest with them and that seems to have generated this new form of slut shaming behaviour. I’m sure she doesn’t mean it like that, and is just trying to joke around but it’s not funny and you shouldn’t be made to feel like you’re doing anything wrong