Yesterday, I asked a girl if she would like to make out with me. She told me that for now, she only sees me as a friend. But, even though she says that, she's giving me signals of her liking me... like that she wants to kiss me and stuff. I'm really confused, I'm actually a really nice guy and I always show respect towards others. She always tells me she doesn't have any friends besides me, and tends to annoy people that come close to me. When people from her school tell her stuff that hurt her feelings, I always be the one making her happy again. I searched some websites with the same question as here, "why doesn't she like me?". But I always end up on websites that tell me "the spark isn't there". I mean... I am flirty and flirt with her very often, she also does that to me. I also tell her some sexual jokes sometimes, so thats not really the point. I'm 16 years old and she is 14. The only thing I can think of being a problem for her, is that she's too young and doesn't want to think about dating guys yet but wants to keep me as a friend for now, but I'm not a psychologist or something. So what do you think?
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WEll I see this a lot. YOUR TO NICE!!! Woman need a man to be dominate not respectful. As for her only wanting to be your freind well she needs to keep you and is worried that if things dont work out she will lose you.
She probably does like you but is defending herself first. I say work with her to get her freinds. Then she will be open more to dating. Also give her time and confidence. Flatter her and compiment her.
Be nice but not to nice and a rug. Women need to be protected if your not confident enough to stand up to her then she can't see you protecting her. Women need a mans strong arms to cuddle in.
As for romance honestly it might be that she is not old enough yet to seriously get a crush. She is probably still going through puberty.
Be her freind and in time you will probably be her date. Just not now.
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