Why did my boyfriend ask me this question?

First off, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 1 and a half years now
Im 23 and he's 28
Im australian-asian and he's fijian-indian
Yesterday night we were just cuddling and this was our conversation:
Him - babe remember that indian family that was dressed up today at the mall?
Me - yeah why?
Him - thats how indians dress for a special ocassion like a wedding or something
Me - ohokay wow
Him - yeah.. can I ask u something?
Me - yeah?
Him - lets just say.. you marrying an indian guy. Would you do 2 weddings? Like 1 wedding thats indian wedding and then the other of your choice?
Me - yeah I would
Him - aww okay thats good to hear. I like that you respect other people's cultures
*then he kisses me*

Why did he ask me this random question?
Is he thinking of marrying me or just random question in general?
Im confused by this
  • he's just asking in general
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  • he's thinking of marrying you one day
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  • Both
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I have a fijian Indian girlfriend and am a white Aussie, have had a very similar convo and we want to get married one day so I'd say he's thinking about it but I wouldn't be hearing wedding bells just yet, he may just be curious but it is a good sign, but definitely not anything to panic about.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • he's just asking in general. Never get your hopes up.

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    • Im not getting my hopes up
      Im not ready for marriage
      But i think he is.. since most of his cousins that are the same age as him are either engaged or married

    • Make sure you tell him that so he doesn't get his hopes up then. Lol

    • Men don't really talk about marriage often unless they serious about a woman

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  • You wifey material girl... he's definitely thinking of the future lol

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  • He is weighing out a concern he has. He is putting you in the context of marriage. Not necessarily planning to propose, but he is placing you in that framework.

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  • Definitely is nice to know that your couple respects your culture lol

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  • I would say he's just talking in general. And why do your ages matter, anyway.

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  • Well when you're with someone marriage is a prospect

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  • How long have you guys been dating?

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    • Nearly 2 years

    • We are each others longest relationship

    • I think he's thinking about the marriage idea

  • He wants to marry you.

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  • Is he intelligent, well read, switched on and smart? if so, then it was just a random question.

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  • Isn't it obvious?

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    • What?

    • It's obvious why he's asking you this...

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