He's great! He's kind, he's a libra.
He can do a bit of grooming on himself but he's not horrible.
However he's super shy around me...
He's told me many times he thinks I'm attractive and recently told me he likes to be around me and likes me.
However he's super nerdy...
Shy and quiet as well.
You can tell he's not very sociable sometimes but he can do it. He's just not out there like I am with putting up conversations with strangers.
Not saying nerdy is bad because I am a bit nerdy too.
He pays for my food, plans dates and replies too all my text. We have a date coming up and we haven't kissed or held hands yet. He hasn't initiated anything because we'll... He's shy.
Am I being shallow? Or is this how passive guys really are? I'm inexperienced in dating and I haven't dated around with different personalities. Past guy I dated for 2 months was dominant/sociable. So this is a different.
- You're being way too shallow
- He seems passive but not too bad
- Yeah he's too passive
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So what's the question? You didn't even state whether you liked him or not, or that you're not interested because of something about him.
But no, it's not shallow, we all have different things we find attractive. It's not shallow to not date someone you don't find attractive, it's just logical.
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