Been dating this girl on and off for over a year. Just broke up for the 10th time about a month ago. Every month she pushes away and says she is scared and that I am just going to end up hurting her and asks me to leave her alone. I back off, and then a month later she comes back again and says she can't stay away from me even when she tries to. And as soon as it progresses and gets "real" again, she pulls away again and shuts me out completely. Her only real boyfriend she's had broke her heart right before I met her so she's all messed up and thinks I will do the same thing. Her birthday is this week and we haven't spoken in a month, should I call, or respect her wishes this time and "leave her alone" again ? We have a lot of mutual friends and she lives in Seattle in my same street... Don't know what to do. Don't want to seem like a doormat chump for calling her, but don't want to be a jerk either...
Calling ex girl on her birthday?
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i know how you feel I'm in a simialr situation. except my boyfriend is on off with me. its hard isn't it.we have to make them chase us and desire us again and keep it up that's what we gotta do. don't know how to?0
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