Most Helpful Girls
Because some girls think that if they're happy people will leave them and won't pay attention to them anymore. Sort of like "I need your help but if I get better you will leave me"... this is what goes through their minds. So they'd rather be hurting instead of being happy and left behind.
And they rather be sympathized instead of being ignored.
What they fail to realize is that constant sadness and the unwillingness to improve and become more positive is the actual reason people start ignoring and feel uneasy around them. So if you try to help a girl who is sad and make her happy, she won't be trying to get happy.. but that's exactly what'll drive you to distance yourself from the negativity.. And that makes her even sadder and makes her pity herself even more.
It's a rather toxic way to be living your life but unfortunately a lot of girls find comfort living in misery
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Most Helpful Guys
A certain kind of sadness can be addicting and hard to rehibilitate yourself out of to become happy once again.
Because it's their habit since from the stone age. Their ego satisfaction.