Then a few days later I go to a concert and we texted before the show and I got back to her the next day and then she’s like why are you talking to me, you blow me off and don’t text me all the time. And she’s like how do I know we’re gonna hang out if you’re like this and I asked her out the week before and she couldn’t due to work so I’m like ok let’s go next week.
And i I told her that I’ve been super busy as of late, which I have between working 2 Jobs, my dad coming in town and hanging out friends, etc, it’s kept me super busy. Absolutely nothing personal.
Then 2 days ago we text and I actually responded right away because I was free. And then she texts me when i was sleeping and said she was sleeping and then says this isn’t gonna work out again because “I was blowing her off”.
I mean god forbid I have my own life right? If I pulled this on some girl, I’d be seen as super needy and blown off instantly without any hesitation.
Maybe i dodged a bullet?
I also think it was tough because her English wasn’t that well, we didn’t have much in common, and she had a kid.
Most Helpful Guy
I really think you have dodged a bullet in this situation. I do think that she was very clingy, it was not due to cultural differences, if anything European women are in general more respectful of a partner personal space than north American, so i would say that this one in particular was a desperate one that was in need to get a man as fast as she can, probably because of her child, so i think that by breaking up you were the benefited part, she would have given you many headaches if that relationship continued, honestly she sounds like she was suffocating, no one can whitshand this kind of pressure for a lot of time.
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Most Helpful Girl
I think she's being clingy