He always makes me feel like he is allowing me to see him and not that he actually wants it himself. He never texts of his own devices, and if I don't explicitly ask him a question, he will not respond. He can be very loving and caring, but then the next second, he demands we don't see each other for a week because he needs space.
When we are fighting, I usually feel like he started it or is at least overreacting. But it always ends the same way, with him threaening to leave me, and me crying and saying I will change. The thing is, I am pretty sure there is nothing I can change, he would just get upset anyways. Clearly, and unfortunately I am very emotionally dependent on him. How can I change that? Because it is really starting to exhaust me.
Most Helpful Guy
I had a girlfriend a bit like that. I was the one who made efforts to adjust to all our differences. At some point I told her it was taking a toll on me and that she needed to make efforts too, if it was to be a fair relationship. And I told her that I'd like to see a clear improvement 6 months in the future.
6 months later, things hadn't changed and I left her despite being so deeply in love.
Most Helpful Girl
There is so many wrong things to that I don’t know where to begin.