Why is this happening all of a sudden?

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So I just met the girl from tinder last Sunday and one thing I've really noticed lately was the two days before and the day after I met her in real life she has started to text me way less than normal. But Here is the weird on the day we met near the end of our date she said that we should do this again. So two days later we made plans to see each other again in about a week. What I don't get is why she has started to text way less before we met in real life. Does she not like me anymore?

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uniqueandme

Maybe she doesn't want to come across as desperate?

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- maxxwell11
  
  Do you think she still likes me?
  
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- uniqueandme
  
  Yea, she wouldn't want to go out with you again, if she didn't like you. What do you think?
  
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- maxxwell11
  
  Yeah I guess so.. Its just really odd that she started to text way less two days before we met and two days later also. I don't know if I'm reading into this too much. I just want to make her not bored or whatever
  
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- uniqueandme
  
  Well, like I said she might not want to look desperate or it's like she has plans to see you so she doesn't want text you all of it so she can talk to you more in person, which is better than texting you!
  
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- maxxwell11
  
  So you're saying she's probably saving the stuff she wants to talk about in person than text?
  
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- uniqueandme
  
  Maybe, I don't really know I'm just giving you hypothetical situations here. I wouldn't worry about it, you're going to stress so much you won't even be able to get off the floor. JK! Nah, but seriously just have fun with her! Be yourself the rest should fall in to place.
  
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- maxxwell11
  
  Hm its just I've never seen a girl who likes a guy but texts way less than normal.
  
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- uniqueandme
  
  If you're really that worried about it, you could ask her? Maybe she is just not the kind of girl you are normally use to.
  
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- maxxwell11
  
  Well she is at a party rn I don't know I thibk I'm over thinking it since she went tk visit her family for a week this month
  
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- uniqueandme
  
  I think you kind of are, but that's ok you could better over think than under, as long as you keep asking for advice I think you will be fine. I hope everything works out for you both.
  
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Landshrk0068

No, she has already gotten you, so she doesn't need to invest as much effort.

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- maxxwell11
  
  I'm confused what do you mean by that?
  
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- Landshrk0068
  
  She already had a date planned with you.
  
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- CuriousCyclone
  
  I kind of second this. I don’t purposely text less but I did notice recently how I don’t text as often once we make plans to meet up. Texting less AFTER the date may be related to how the date went or what she thinks of you. But if you already made plans to meet up again. Don’t stress it. Obviously she wants to see you again!
  
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- maxxwell11
  
  @CuriousCyclone I don't know she makes it seem so hard to tell if she likes me
  
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