Most Helpful Guy
Oh I think about it sometimes but then I remember that I don't want to be alone forever. Today the urge to date people is annoyingly strong, I just got one heart I am afraid to give it to anyone for fear they will not want it because they think they don't deserve it and feel like a victim of their own mind (or maybe they will just break it to feel better about themselves). Of course I am not much better but I do hope that I can be good enough and try to find a way to be better (I have my doubts about myself and what I am supposed to do).
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve had to go through in your life. People can be so cruel and thoughtless. No child should have to grow up like that.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to remain single. I think about it all the time. So many people act like being a single woman is some kind of weakness; I personally believe the exact opposite... the weakness is in those who feel incomplete without a significant other. We need to learn how to be content within ourselves, and to not depend on others for our happiness.
Live your life in whatever way is gonna make you happy and will help you recover from the pain of the past. Be independent. Be a little selfish. But most importantly, don’t let what other people say/do get you down. I know it’s easier said than done, but take it from me... letting go of all the anger and hurt is the best kind of freedom.
I hope this has helped a bit, and I pray you find some happiness 😊