Hi y’all. So my boyfriend and I have been dating over a year. In the beginning we both were gym heads. He was nice slim and cut, always shaved and looked nice. When I got preg he gained about 40 pounds and never really shaved or got dressed nice. Last week he went out with friends and shaved finally. Before he went out he said that he feels young again and now all week he’s been trying to eat good and bought all this health stuff. He wants to workout again. Is it wrong of me for me not wanting him to do that? I know once he does that girls will be all over him. Especially cause he goes out alone since I’m with the baby. I trust him but a part of me thinks he might entertain these girls out there. I never worried about it before cause he looked a mess tbh. But now I’m nervous cause he’ll look how he did before, which was amazing. I can’t go back to the gym for one more week so I feel like I need to make myself look nice all the time so he doesn’t look other ways.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to support him.
he's going to do it regardless and YOU get the brownie points for being there and motivating him.
Let not jealousy cause a druft.
He can sense if you're on his team or not and may not understand or even might over look why.
You want to be the girl he attempts to attract when he's sexy again, YOU need to be there, right in fron off his face.
Start finding a way to go out with him to, just a liitle reninder to him that you two are one.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I can totally understand you!! It’s like you can’t catch up lookswise because you’re now busy taking care of the baby, if that makes sense? I would say you’re being irrational about the whole situation because him looking nice JUST gives him an self confidence boost and who doesn’t like feeling self confident? You can both take the time to get dressed up and go to fancy places. I bet both of you look amazing together as a couple so seriously don’t worry, if he was the kind of guy who relies on female attention then he would’ve taken care of his appearance MONTHSS or even YEARS ago ❤️❤️0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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