I am more freaked out since we’ve been on 4 dates and on the last date he said we could get married (I thought he was joking but he said it a few times throughout the evening) and then said he wanted to have my children in a few years. He seems to be moving fast with me, but I know some guys once they fall for a girl they get crazy too. I’ve had it happen with other guys. I’m quite pretty (not trying to sound stuck up but I have a lot of guys after me) and I’m young... but I don’t want to be stupid, and I truthfully feel really bad about the thought of accusing him of this but people do it all the time. How do I ask him? He is super sweet and nice so I don’t want to come off accusatory.
Also I briefly saw an ID (maybe working id?) in his pocket, it was all black and white though?
Most Helpful Guy
I will try to answer this the best way possible. From the comments below l see that only bigots came to answer your question without answering your question and adding their sterotypes. I personally think that you probably shouldn’t see him just because of a massive age difference and the fact that you are young Andre probably needs a women more mature who’s going to want to settle down in a couple of years l don’t see someone your age setting down at least til late 20s and l don’t think he’s looking to wait more than 2 years. In his culture people tend to get married a lot quicker than in the states so l see a lot of possible differences. But if he makes you happy than stick around and if he respects you he will wait.
Most Helpful Girl
Just don't marry him and keep seeing him. If he suddenly disappears or INS comes for him, there is your answer. If things work out and you're together for a few years, maybe put marriage back on the table and the reason will certainly be because you love each other. Nothing wrong with being casual. Just don't marry him.