Am I in the friend zone?

I hate for this explanation to be lengthy but it has to be. Back in January, I told my best friend/crush that I liked him (I did this in a note and I put it in a 5-Gum container.) After giving him the note he became super shy but then would still talk to me. I mean he is already a shy person, but sometimes I wonder what we even are. There are days where he flirts super heavily and then times when he just avoids me for no reason, and I'm wondering if I said something wrong. We tease each other a lot and it's just something about him that makes me like him a lot. He teases me sexually and I don't mind it because we are also best friends. I am also bi so he will also make comments about other girls. His friends tease me when I walk past him so I am wondering if he has said anything about me to them. I Just don't know what we are. I like him so much; every time I ask him we really don't talk about it. But when people ask him if I am his girlfriend he says yes. I dunno if he is just joking or what.

Also to add when we hang out, I feel this connection like something is there. Some days I feel like we are already a couple (even though we have never talked about it). I am not sure about whether or not I am in the friend zone or not.
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  • Well no, but jeez there's a lot to dissect here! Anyway I would suggest keeping it friendly.

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    • So keep on flirting, its just I am nervous because I don't want to waste my time on him. I want to know if there is something there. But I am too afraid to say anything

  • You don’t sound like you’re bi!

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    • I came out last year. I knew I like both girls and boys. Right now since I like him I haven't really liked anyone else. I just think girls are cute rn

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    • But lowkey I don't know whether I should move on or not. My gut says not to, but my mind says yes.

    • Go with your gut

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