in fact we haven't chilled in a week...hes been with his friends but the longest we've not hung out was 3 days TOPS. I feel like I'm not interesting enough for him anymore, its a rough patch but we really need to get out of it. suggestions?
We've been dating for almost a year, all of a sudden we have nothing to talk about anymore?
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Girl, I was there three years ago. Its hard when your already in too deep and you find out you really don't have anything to talk about. Do you know any of his interests? Video-games, sports, art or music? Take an interest in his interests! But be real to yourself. If you hate football don't force yourself to fake it for his sake. He'll see right through it. Call him and ask him to go out with you. Remember to keep your dates fun and mostly relaxed. I hope you've been in contact with him that week.
Remember guys NEED guy time. Just to be a guy with other guys. So, don't fret! That's normal!0
I have been there many times! It's so annoying but sometimes it's a sign to just move forward. You are young and its not about you "not" being "interesting". It just happens sometimes. He could be scared of commitment or maybe he just isn't into you really. I would try talking to him. Being honest and talking openly will be very helpful. You will be able to gather what you need to make a choice. I know you don't want to break up but if you guys aren't talking really and not seeing each other then there is something wrong. You need to talk to him first though and listen to what he says. I hope it works out! Keep me updated =)0
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