Boyfriend said this to me?

Boyfriend mentioned yesterday that when he was in high school he used to be a little bit of a bully. I asked him what made you change? He said that he stopped hanging around the bad group of friends and focused on working and his hobby farming. Do you think he changed? He doesn't ever put me down, he always brings me up. Can bullies change if they stop hanging out with the enablers?

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  • hey change is real. I used to be a porn addict and i changed, i changed my friends and that helped me like 90%

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    • That's good to hear! Good for you :)

    • You could be a great influence for him, if he's still progression dont give up on him, invest in him. I had a lot of support and people investing a bunch of love and effort into me. You show your boyfriend you car and want him to continue to change and be better he will treasure you for it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Bullies can change. Besides they dont bully everyone espcially not the persom theyre datinf

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  • Your social click can really influence you. Also are you the same person as your high school self if you really reflect?

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    • TRUE, and hell no. Man I was gonna save animals and burn down fur farms and rescue animals haha. I would've been in jail! XD

    • Lol seems like you have your answer then.

  • Yeah, I think people can change. A lot of bullies grow up to regret how they treated others. people can be pretty immature in high school. If your boyfriend is being honest like this and is kind to you, then you should give him the benefit of the doubt. It's only a red flag if you see him being mean.

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  • of course they can. Anyone can change if they really want to. They just have to work at it.

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  • yes! of coarse. if you have ever seen any high school based movie, the bully always finds a way to realize self worth. and as long as he never says anything or does anything to hurt you, I doubt he is anything to worry about.

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  • Typically yes.

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    • That's good! he just stopped hanging around with the wrong crew I guess.

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    • Cool thanks! All the best to you and your guy 😊

    • Thank you so much! He makes me hella happy!

  • It's more about how hew now treats others, especially YOUR friends. how he treats others, is generally how he'll treat you

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    • What about my mom? Or even his family?

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    • He's got a great relationship with his family. He's a mommas boy. And whenever his sister is drinking, he is always there to give her a ride.

    • that likely means he's getting better with treating people nicer

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