Is it off putting to date a guy with a child he never gets to see?
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If he was a guy who was making the effort to be a Dad to whatever level he was allowed, then that's cool. I know split-ups and custody shit can be very fucked-up and hard to fix.
I would just be sad for him, and help him be in his kid's life as much as possible. Maybe all that can be is paying child-support faithfully.
I knew my husband had a daughter and wasn't with the mother long before we started dating. I had met her and talked to her many times when she was a little girl. She knew who I was when her dad said he was dating me and she told him she thought I was really smart. I loved spending time with her on the weekends. Sometimes if it was the weekend and her dad was out of town for work or a gig, I would go take her out myself. I love that kid.
I hope you get it worked out to be in your son's life. Kids need their dads.
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