We have introduced each other to friends
he's the first guy I've introduced to my family
And im the first girl he's introduced to his family
Even tho we both had previous relationships
And then due to a massive argument, we broke up at the end of January
But we still tried to remain friends after the break up
We still kept in touch every week and seeing each other at least once a week
So we were friends for 4 months until we confessed that we were both still in love with each other and want to make it work
So we both decided to get back together 3 weeks ago
Anyways, so obviously I told my friends that we got back together
And invited him to places with me and my friends recently
He knows them anyway
And he introduced me as his girlfriend to his new house mates
But the question is... do you think he has told his friends and coworkers that we got back together?
Because he hasn't mentioned anything about his friends knowing about us back together
Most Helpful Girl
Well there is no way of knowing other than just asking him.
He introduced you to his house mates as his girlfriend and you guys decided to give it another go so why wouldn't he? I don't think he'd go out of his way to not tell them... I just don't think it's really something that you go around broadcasting tbh and it might not have come up. I wouldn't really worry about it.. I was surprised that my boyfriend had told people at work, even the kids he works with know my name lol (he works in a school).
I do wonder though, does this really matter that much? Are you worried he's embarrassed to tell them? Did it end badly or something?
Most Helpful Guy
Unless you did something horrible, after which he'd be embarrassed to admit reconciling, he probably has.
But I wouldn't worry about it. This kind of neuroticism was likely a catalyst in your relationship's demise the first time. Try to breathe, and to accept that he wants you. Don't read too deeply into the little things.