I’m scared that I would lose him?

We’ve been dating for quite some time I guess

He really cares about me and loves me as I do to him

Whenever we see each other, it’s always very comfortable, fun, sweet and exciting

But sometimes I get scared
I really don’t want him to leave me

He knows that I’m scared because I told him last week
And he said I don’t have to worry about that because he will never leave me

Any advice?


Most Helpful Girl

  • It sounds like you have some attachment issues that you need to work out with yourself. I suggest therapy. If you become too paranoid about him leaving, it can really affect the relationship

    • What do you mean when you say “attachment issues”? I’m little confused?

      And yeah... it’s not like I’m always crying and afraid that he’ll leave me.

      But it definitely pops into my mind sometimes

    • I think it's normal to have fear that something too good to be true isn't true. I guess I was thinking you were being too afraid of him leaving but if that isn't the case I think it's normal to feel and think that way. My advice is just not to worry! Enjoy the moment and enjoy your relationship. You don't know what the future brings so worrying about it is wasted space.

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What Girls & Guys Said

  • Being scared of losing him is the worst thing you can do
    Just relax and enjoy the time you have with him now

    • Yeah I think you are right... I will try and not think too hard.

  • Why do you think he would leave you !

    • Im afraid that maybe he’ll meet someone who’s better than me and decides to leave m e

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