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Perhaps, but I would say that your mentality has a lot to do with it. It has a lot to do with people who can get some ass, as well. You may be ugly, short, fat, some kind of speech impediment, etc, but I mean you would be surprised how some men get around their various drawbacks. Women are not compassionate, not in the slightest, just because you're a lonely man who feels cheated or alienated from the dating scene. However, this is not the totality of who you are, or what you have to offer them. If you can make the case for your soul, if you can ignore the competition long enough to catch ones attention for long enough, a woman will extend you some somewhere down the line. Though they are not a font of it, women are the best and most generous conveyors of compassion.
You gotta fix your game up man. Get a skill, write poetry, tell jokes, be happy around them so as to suggest their presence is a present in itself. They don't want a walking project to take on, grooming the damage tht years of loneliness has done to some man they've never known or had reason to know. I didn't date for a whole as a young adult & you know, the internet is a very discouraging place with all of the fictional identities people portray, the success they flaunt in their own exploits, & the generally hostile & collectivist attitude held to everyone from incels to fuckboys to weeaboos to bronies. The less you consult with the internet for advice on this personal advancement you need, the better. Perhaps you just don't have an ear to talk about this problem in person with, but this still isn't going to contain the solution you need.
Whatever works, if and when it does, won't be anything you picked up from online.